Thursday Thirteen – Things I Want To Do Thursday, Nov 13 2008 

Thirteen Things I want to do:

 

1.  I really want to go back to France.  I went there originally thinking that the people would be rude, and that I would not have a good time.  I went, just to go.  Well,…  I LOVED it!  It was my best trip ever!  I only spent one week there.  I want to go back! 

2.  I want to find my “Soul Mate”.  I have not found him yet….  I still have hope…..

3.  I want to learn to cook. 

4.  I want to go to Spain and travel around and eat like they do on the PBS show  “On the Road Again”!  If you have not seen this show, you should check it out.  It is fun, interesting, and it always makes me hungry!  Here is the link to the show’s website:

http://spainontheroadagain.com/

5.  I want to go to Argentina(where my father is from.)

6.  I want to be at peace with everyone in my biological family.  My older sister hates me.  I don’t really know why.

7.  I want to live near my best friend/younger sister and her family!  I miss her.  It hurts sometimes to not be able to spend time with her. 

8.  I want to go to Tibet.

9.  I want to continue researching and studying world mythology and religion.

10.  I want to always be creating some kind of art.

11.  I want to live closer to the ocean.

12.  I want to continue teaching.

13.  I want to be happy!!!!!  Just one simple little wish…. to be happy.

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Oya – Goddess of Change Tuesday, Nov 11 2008 

This week – Oya, Goddess of Change.  I need to make changes!!!!

 

The Mythology

In Africa, Oya (pronounced oh-yah) is the Yoruban Goddess of weather, especially tornadoes, lightning, destructive rainstorms, fire, female leadership, persuasive charm, and transformation.  She is also one of the most powerful of Brazilian Macumba deities.  When women find themselves in hard-to-resolve conflicts, she is the one to call on for protection.   Wearing wine, her favorite color, and exhibiting nine whirlwinds (nine being her sacred number), she is depicted here with a turban twisted to appear like buffalo horns, for it is said she assumed the shape of a buffalo when wedded to Ogun.

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The Lessons of this Goddess

 

Oyastorms into your life to tell you that change is calling, beckoning, and camping out on your doorstep.  The way to wholeness for you lies in embracing change.  Have you been too busy, too stressed, to attend to the changes needed in your life to nurture yourself?  Is change so fearful a concept that you push it aside, play hide-and seek with it, or just ignore it?  Have you arranged your life so perfectly that there is no room left for potential?  Time for change.  Time to sweep out, sweep up, and be swept away.  Resistance to change brings more persistent change.  Choosing to dance with change means you will flow with it.  Let yourself be unsettled, prepare yourself for growth.  Enter deeply into change’s chaotic dance and you’ll be richly blessed with abundant possibility.  It is time for something completely different.  The Goddess says that the earth must be dug up before anything can be planted and that change always brings you what you need on your path to wholeness.

Today… I am Teal Saturday, Nov 1 2008 

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Your dominant hues are green and blue. You’re smart and you know it, and want to use your power to help people and relate to others. Even though you tend to battle with yourself, you solve other people’s conflicts well.

Your saturation level is very high – you are all about getting things done. The world may think you work too hard but you have a lot to show for it, and it keeps you going. You shouldn’t be afraid to lead people, because if you’re doing it, it’ll be done right.

Your outlook on life can be bright or dark, depending on the situation. You are flexible and see things objectively.

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Post-Modern Friday, Oct 31 2008 

Your result for The Find Your Philosophical Era! Test…

The Post-Modern

 

Congratulations! You are: a Post-Modern!

Congratulations! Unlike everyone else, you Post-Moderns were born in the right era. You can even influence the further development of Post-Modernism! Post-Moderns like you are bowed down by the weight of all the writers and thinkers who have existed before them; but, rather than respecting the authority of the past, as a Medieval thinker might do, a Post-Modern thinker is more likely to reject or reinterpret everything which came before him. While the Moderns ridiculed religion, Post-Moderns ridicule religion and atheism alike. The parody is _the_ classic Post-Modern art form.

Post-Modern thinkers tend to cast every commonly received notion into doubt. The naive, common-sense interpretation of things is shocked when Post-Modernism declares, for instance, that perfect translation is theoretically impossible, or that the connection between a word and its meaning is merely illusory. The distinction between meaning and meaninglessness is blurred–see the poetry of e.e. cummings or the works of Joyce for an example of the Post-Modern disregard for the orthodox English sentence.

Moreover, Post-Moderns like Freud and Nietzsche, with their psychological insight, cast into doubt the freedom of the human will, and helped to blur the lines previous eras might have drawn between a good person and a bad one, between a madman and a sane one.

Some post-modern philosophers: Wittgenstein, Nietzsche, Derrida, Foucault, Freud, Benjamin, Hegel, Kierkegaard

Some post-modern artists: Joyce, Henry James, Proust, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Faulkner, Woolf, Samuel Beckett

Typical post-modern art forms: the non-traditional novel, black comedy, jazz, film, photography, the music video, the psychological case study, the parody

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Goddess of the Week – Maat Friday, Oct 31 2008 

I have been a little behind on my Goddess of the week.  Things have been very crazy for me lately.  I have been trying to find a new place to live, and this has not been easy.  I have been sick, tired and stressed beyond all measures.  I am going to try once again to focus on a Goddess each week.  This week, as the fates would have it, the Goddess is Maat.  This is very appropriate for me now, because I have been very unjust with myself and others.  My ”inner Judge”  has been condemning and judging me very harshly.  I had resigned myself to living in a situation that is unjust and intolerable.  I can not continue to live the way I have been living.  If I continue on my current path,  my heart will certainly be devoured. 

The Mythology

Maat (pronounced maht) was an ancient Egyptian Goddess of law, order, truth, and justice.  With her feather of truth she weighed the souls of all who came to her subterranean Hall of Judgement.  She would place her plume on her scales opposite the heart of the deceased.  If the scales balanced, the deceased could feast with deities and spirits of the dead; if the heart was heavy, the deceased was turned over to Ahemait (Underworld Goddess who is part hippopotamus, part lion, part crocodile) to be devoured.

The Lessons of this Goddess

Maat has come with her feather of truth to assist you in bringing justice into your life.  Are you in a situation that seems unfair, unjust, unreasonable?  Have you used integrity, yet another or others have not, and now you are wounded and seek justice?  Have you not been honest in your words, your deeds, your actions?  Are you being unjust to others?  to yourself?  Perhaps your standards are so rigid that you find them impossible to meet and continually need to rebel?  Do you have an inner judge who condemns you for any infractions in his/her rule?  Now is the time to look at your life and invite justice in.  Now is the time to repay all debts, to strike a fair and reasonable balance in all your dealings.  The Goddess says that the way to wholeness for you lies in accepting the loving nature of justice which seeks to right all wrongs by administering the lessons needed.

Goddess of the Week – Hecate – Crossroads Sunday, Sep 21 2008 

The Greek goddess Hecate reminds us of the importance of change, helping us to release the past, especially those things that are hindering our growth,  and to accept change and transitions.  She sometimes asks us to let go of what is familiar, safe, and secure and to travel to the scary places of the soul.

New beginnings, whether spiritual or mundane, aren’t always easy.  But Hecate is there to support and show you the way.

She loans her farsightedness for you to see what lies deeply forgotten or even hidden, and helps you make a choice and find your path.  Oft times she shines her torch to guide you while you are in dreams or meditation.

Hecate teaches us to be just and to be tolerant of those who are different or less fortunate, yet she is hardly a “bleeding heart”, for Hecate dispenses justice “blindly” and equally.

Whether the Greek goddess Hecate visits us in waking hours or only while we sleep, she can lead us to see things differently (ourselves included) and help us find greater understanding of our selves and others. 

Although her name may mean “The Distant One”, Hecate is always close at hand in times of need, helping us to release the old, familiar ways and find our way through new beginnings.

 

 Hecate – Greek Goddess of Crossroads

Hecate, Greek goddess of the three paths, guardian of the household, protector of everything newly born, and the goddess of witchcraft — once a widely revered and influential goddess,  the reputation of Hecate has been tarnished over the centuries.  In current times, she is usually depicted as a “hag” or old witch stirring the cauldron.

But nothing could be further from the image of Hecate’s original glory.

A beautiful and powerful goddess in her own right, the Greek goddess Hecate was the only one of the ancient Titans who Zeus allowed to retain their authority once the Olympians seized control.  Zeus shared with Hecate, and only her, the awesome power of giving humanity anything she wished (or withholding it if she pleased).

Usually classified as a “moon goddess”,  her kingdoms were actually three-fold . . . the earth, sea, and sky.  Having the power to create or withhold storms undoubtedly played a role in making her the goddess who was the protector of shepherds and sailors. 

A lover of solitude, the Greek goddess Hecate was, like her cousin Artemis, a “virgin” goddess, unwilling to sacrifice her independent nature for the sake of marriage.  Walking the roads at night or visiting cemeteries during the dark phase of the moon, the goddess Hecate was described as shining or luminous.

In other legends she is invisible, perhaps only glimpsed as a light, a “will-o-the-wisp”.   Perhaps it was this luminous quality that marked Hecate as a “moon goddess”, for she seemed quite at home on the earth.

Some scholars believe it is also was because her mother was Asteria(the Titan goddess of the Shining Light or “Star”) or perhaps it was because she sensibly always carried a torch on her journeys.

 Like Artemis, Hecate was usually depicted with her sacred dogs, although Hecate and even her animals, were sometimes said to have three heads and that they could see in all directions.  Although usually depicted as a beautiful woman having three human heads, some images are fearsome indeed (one with a snake’s head, one with a horse’s, and the third a boar’s head).

This farsightedness, the ability to see in several directions at once (even the past, present, and future) featured largely in her most famous myth, the abduction of Persephone.  For it was the goddess Hecate who “saw” and told the frantic Demeter what had become of her daughter.

The goddess Hecate continued to play an important role in the life of Persephone, becoming her confidante when she was in the Underworld.  Hades, thankful for their friendship, was more than hospitable, honoring Hecate as a prominent and permanent guest in the spirit world.  Surely this had the effect of enhancing her reputation as a spirit of black magic with the power to conjure up dreams, prophecies, and phantoms. 

Hecate’s ability to see into the Underworld, the “otherworld” of the sleeping and the dead, made her comfortable and tolerant in the company of those most would shun out of fear or misunderstanding.

In her role as ‘Queen of the Night’, sometimes traveling with a following of  “ghosts” and other social outcasts, she was both honored and feared as the protectress of the oppressed and of those who lived “on the edge”.  In Rome many of the priests in her sacred groves were former slaves who had been released to work in her service.

The goddess Hecate was often accompanied on her travels by an owl, a symbol of wisdom.  Not really known as a goddess of wisdom, per se, Hecate is nevertheless recognized for a special type of knowledge and is considered to be the goddess of trivia.

Hecate’s farsightedness and attention to detail, combined with her extraordinary interest in that which most of us discount as irrelevant or arcane, gave her tremendous powers.

She knew what the rest of us did not.

Not surprisingly, the people thought it best to give the goddess Hecate (and any friends that might be accompanying her) a lot of honor and a fairly wide berth.  When darkness descended they wisely retired to the fireside for supper, but put the leftovers outside as an offering to Hecate and her hounds.

That the homeless and destitute were often the actual beneficiaries hardly mattered…after all, they were under Hecate’s protection.

In a similar fashion, food was often left at the crossroads to honor Hecate, especially at junctions where three roads converged –what we often call a “Y-intersection”. 

Frequently a pole was erected at the intersection and three masks would be hung from it to pay homage to Hecate and to request her guidance in helping to choose the right direction. 

Three-faced masks also adorned the entrances of many homes, honoring the goddess Hecate who could, of course, wield her influence over “the spirits that traveled the earth” to keep them  from entering the household.  

It is hardly surprising that a woman who needed to make a trip alone at night would say a brief prayer to Hecate to seek her protection.  The goddess Hecate, like her cousin Artemis, was known as a protector of women, especially during childbirth.

Not only was Hecate called upon to ease the pains and progress of a woman’s labor, but especially to protect and restore the health and growth of a child.

Similarly, Hecate played a role that, in contemporary times, we would describe as “hospice nurse”, helping the elderly make a smooth and painless passage into the next life and staying with them, if need be, in the otherworld to help prepare them for their eventual return to the earth in their next life.

Familiar with the process of death and dying as well as that of new birth and new life, the goddess Hecate was wise in all of earth’s mysteries.  

Goddess of the Week : Nu Kua – Goddess of Order Saturday, Sep 13 2008 

Mythology

At the time of the what the Hopei and Shansi people of northern China call the Great Chaos in the universe, Nu Kua (pronounced noo’kwah), the dragon-bodied Goddess, came to restore order.  She replaced the pillars of heaven with the legs of the great turtle and repaired the sky with colored stones.  Her repairs enabled the rains to fall when needed and the seasons to come in their rightful order.  The dragons on her two pillars guard the path of the sun and the moon.  The compass she wears at her waist symbolizes order.

The Lessons of this Goddess

Nu Kua floats into your life to assist you in creating order.  Is chaos constantly peering around the edges of your life, threatening to overwhelm you if you relax for an instant?  Have you let things pile up and bury you?  Do yo find you are excellent at organizing your boss, your family, your mate, but not yourself?  Are you afraid of order, afraid that if you find a workable system for yourself you will feel locked in, unable to flow?  Or perhaps you have created order in your life, but in a way that is stifling and stiff, solid, heavy, engraved in stone.  Now is the time to nurture yourself with order that assists rather than chokes your life force.  The Goddess says that when life is ordered in the natural way, you nurture your path to wholeness. When you forcibly impose something unnatural from without, you create rebellion and Resistance.

For images of Nu Kua click the links below:

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Scam Run On Internet Scammer Saturday, Sep 13 2008 

Today I was driving in my car, and listening to an NPR program called “This American Life”.  They had a very interesting story about a scam that was run on an Internet scammer.  Actually, it was justice served.  I do not feel guilty for enjoying the story.  It is unfortunate however, that the scammer did not seem to learn anything because he went right back to Internet scamming when he got back to Nigeria.  Click on the links below to read about it.

http://www.thisamericanlife.org/Radio_Episode.aspx?episode=363

http://forum.419eater.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=133890

I have a friend that was scammed during one of the most difficult times of her life, and hearing this story made me feel like perhaps there is some justice in this world.  Internet scammers take advantage of desperate people.  They hurt people that are vulnerable and good, and they do not care about the consequences.

I Have a New Niece Sunday, Aug 31 2008 

I have wonderful news!  Yesterday at 9:58 a.m.  my very beautiful 7lb. 2oz Niece was born!!!!  I am in the D.C. area for this wondrous occasion!  Her name is Vivian, after one of my sister’s college professors.  A beautiful daughter has been born to my beautiful sister!  She is truly blessed!

Hello World!! Friday, Aug 1 2008 

Okay, I have been away for awhile, but I am back now!  I have missed blogging soooo much.  I have been working three teaching jobs, and I am about to go insane!  I work from 9:00 am – 9:00 pm.  Next week one of my teaching jobs ends.  I am glad for the time, but on the other hand it is my favorite class to teach.  I have been teaching refugee and immigrant women how to integrate into American society and business culture.  It has been one of the most rewarding classes that I have ever taught!  This is a quick note, but at least now I am back.

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