Well, my brother called me back today. Boy was I suprised! Then I also talked to my sister, and her husband has been looking up flights and days for when I can come to visit! So, this is an example of how when your feeling down, and you let it put a filter over the way you are thinking, your thinking can be distorted! Lesson learned, again! I fall into the distorted thinking trap a little too often. This is something I need to work on!